My Husband and me on Halloween - Our Annual Pirate Show! |
The week started with a funeral out of town, then there was the annual pirate show my husband and I put on each year at Halloween and the week ended with a trip to the Texas Renaissance Faire after a six year absence.
This week I encountered some of the most difficult challenges I've had since the early days of starting Ideal Protein.
A couple of times I had to go off diet. Being a guest in someone's home (more than once) and spending two days at a renaissance faire presents a lot of hard food choices. The fact that I deviated from the program showed in my fat percentage, it went up a little, but I am proud of the fact that I was able to drop two pounds in spite of this week's chaos.
One of the most frustrating experiences this week was dealing with a friend who was hyper-critical of the diet I'm on (even though my success is obvious) and worked really hard to derail my progress. I won't go into great detail about the incident, what was said or done - I'm not even sure she did it consciously. The experience left me hurt and angry... and right now I am focusing on shrugging it off. Staying angry at someone I love because they just "don't get it" doesn't do either of us any good.
What's important for ME right now is to stick to a program I know is right for ME! It doesn't bother me if someone thinks another diet or another approach to health is better than what I am doing - More power to them!
I know what is working for ME - another's uneducated, unkind opinion is just noise and says more about where they are than it does about me.
I have shed more than 80 lbs. from my frame. I feel better than I've felt in years. My knees don't hurt anymore, I have a general sense of well-being and I'm more productive than ever before. There's no arguing with those results.
The picture above was taken on Halloween night as my husband and I were acting all piratey for the neighborhood trick-or-treaters. After this picture was taken I kept staring at it. My husband asked me what I was doing and I said, "I can't believe that's me!" He answered with "You look great!"
I wore the pirate bodice when I was a lot heavier. I tried to locate photos from "back then" but had no luck finding any. The bodice has a lot of adjustable laces that I gapped open at the front and the back to get it on my growing body. Last Halloween I had to find another costume because I was finally too big to wear my favorite bodice so imagine my delight when I was not only able to wear the bodice again this year, but lace it up completely in the front and back!! I have NEVER been able to lace that thing up all the way! Never!
I wore that bodice to faire one of the days we were there, too, and my husband said, "I've always had a pretty wife to take to faire, but this is the first time I've had a hot wife at my side." or something to that effect. I could have flown after that remark.
I ran into old friends at faire, some didn't recognize me at first. One friend (Who follows this blog - Hi Pat!) took a good look at me and said, "I don't think I've ever seen you this small and went on to tell me how good I looked." It felt so good to reconnect with friends I hadn't seen in years and even better when they told me how happy or good I looked.
I got a lot of compliments on my costumes from passers by, which has never, ever happened. To illustrate the difference in how I look now and how I looked the last time I went to faire, here are two pictures:
Me, about 2006 - the last year I went to The Texas Renaissance Faire. I probably Weighed over 300 lbs. at this time. |
A photo taken by my friend, Tony Goodman, this past Saturday at the Texas Renaissance Faire. No wonder Folks didn't recognize me!! |
It's a dramatic difference!! The only thing that looks the same is the little crown thingy I am wearing on my head!!
I love - LOVE - this diet!
Wow!!! Good for you. I am thrilled with your every success, because I know that I can do it too Love the pirate costume, I am a pirate at heart, and the ren fair costume, would love to see a full shot. Can't wait to get the weight off and feel like doing things again without hips and knees hurting. Thanks for this blog!
ReplyDeleteI wish you all the success in the world, Carolyn! I can't relay the depth of amazement I feel with each milestone reached. Today I was able to wear a pair of size 16 pants to work!! (I was a tight 24 when I started!)
DeleteMy knees stopped hurting after I dropped about 45 lbs. I'm hoping you're pain-free before that ... because that's when the miracles really start to happen!